Dating in LA

May 6, 2009 at 7:15 pm (dating) (, , , )

Dating in LA is interesting. You find guys who are good looking that only want you for one thing. You find guys that are really nice and either you are not attracted to them or he doesn’t want anything more then a friendship, because they don’t want anything serious right now.

Sometimes you can find someone that you are attracted to, is nice and feels the same way as you do. You date but then he decides he wants to see what it would be like with someone else. I understand this happens in other states but it seems in LA, the guys are always looking for the next best thing, whether it be their career or personal life.

To be a girl dating out here you have to have a certain look that guys are attracted to before they will even approach you. I had one guy tell me, “your cute and cool to talk to but…”. I had another guy after looking at my picture tell me, “You need to wear a shorter dress, show more cleavage and dye your hair platinum blonde”. Okay I was wearing was shorter then I normally wear and was showing enough cleavage without being skanky. The platinum blonde hair, yeah that happened once by accident and did not look good.

I did have one guy I was dating tell me I am like a ‘wholesome fruit” Yes I was confused when he told me. He said I am wholesome because I am good inside and out. Then he told me he has been meeting girls that are ‘rancid fruit’, look good on the outside but inside they are not are not good. In the end he choose a rancid fruit many times after dating me and it never lasted. I have been lucky that I have been able to date some great guys, but it has never lasted more then 6 months.

I am optimistic that I will find someone that has the same family plan as me and wants to be with me and only me. Even though I had one guy tell me I am the wrong state to find that. What does he know?


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